Can we stop encouraging afks?

So i recently had a game, we were losing pretty bad and my bot lane was doing pretty awful as well. i was doing good top tho and i was trying to not say anything, but soon the xayah started complaining and when i told her stfu youre being garbage she afks. Now i get that nobody likes flame but that was the first thing i said to her, and from that my jungler was calling for reports on me for flaming. I get that flaming is bad and i shouldnt do it but it also shouldnt be an excuse for people to just afk in fountain or troll. we need to stop excusing afks because "oh they were flamed its okay"
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